Hi, south brilliant,
This feels like Tolerant Selection is on, but your screen shot shows it is off.
I just answered a question that might be connected somehow. But sadly, I have no solution for that.
Thanks for pointing out that you are on Windows, as I saw it elsewhere also mentioned to appear running Windows. I have problems recreating it on Mac.
Since your model looks more complex than two cubes, I can look into it; please just use the object as a c4d file. Thank you.
I'm unsure if that pushes anything forward, but if you would like to check, please get in touch with tech support.
https://www.maxon.net/en/support-center
Sorry for the extra effort.
My best wishes